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Yeah. Everyone in my friends list. Me too, but I'm currently RNGing in HG (obviously). Just VM them asking for a battle and they'll probably oblige. Good luck. :)
Yeah I'm going to take a small break to update. This will also give you some rest for your surgery :) Anyway, those bellossom aren't anything special. You can toss them.